This topic will not be descriptive but would be presented in a bullet format as to minimize the unhappiness that I experienced before I left for UK…. Seeking reader’s understandings on this matter. Thanks in advanced.
When my mom, Late Tan Goay Joo, was still alive, my birthday will be celebrated meerily by inviting all my relatives. It was a merry situation for most of the people, except me, the birthday girl, for some reasons…. One might comment that I am odd but it just I don’t feel the joyfulness for some reason… I suppose I know why now… tough life ahead for me to face…
Short Working experience in KL branch; 7 months old…. With the intention to contribute a little in Seng Seng Construction (SSC) while I was pursuing my postgraduate studies in University of Nottingham Malaysia Campus (UNMC) way back in year 2005 and 2006 on self sponsored basis. During my stay with my 2nd uncle, Robert Tan Beng Kheng, he found out that my relation with my father, Loh Cheng Leong was not in good terms and subsequently started to worsen it during my stay in K.L., naturally I was not aware of it until now…. :-S
A family meeting was held to announce the situation of SSC. as well as to obtain the consent from all family members to agree on using part of the sales profit of a property worth 6 millions to get another lodging… My memory on the meeting was gradually filled up by my father…. I was mad and was strongly against it! Even so, my father signed the agreement! :(
Participated in whatever parties held by my relatives; be it a Xmas party, Reunion dinner, birthday party etc. but never really blend in the group for years ever since my mum, Tan Goay Joo had passed on; probably due to indifferent view on expenditure, lifestyle etc… theirs, in my point of view is extravagant…. :-S
My last met up my eldest uncle, Dato’ Tan Beng Hwa was the week before I left for UK as a working holiday maker. Unfortunately it was held In Penang GMC as he was hospitalized. When I ask for his sponsorship of my UK trip, I was turned down indirectly by saying that5 Lengkok York requires a lot of financial support which caused me to suffered emotion turbulence at that moment…. And subsequently shut me off.
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